How to Attract and Approach Women With Confidence – 3 Ways to Become Confident Around Women


Not being able to maintain a certain amount of confidence in the presence of a woman can be a really big hindrance in the dating game. We all have heard many times before about how women love to meet a guy with confidence, and that the more confident that you are when you are around women, the more likely it is that you are going to end up getting the girl.

Well, what if you do have a hard time being confident around women?

Is there something that you can do to make yourself appear to have a lot more confidence?

Here are 3 ways to make yourself more confident with women:

1. Experience breeds confidence, so you need to get more experienced with women.

It’s highly likely that if you lack a confident demeanor around women, then you probably are not the most experience guy when it comes to dating and just being around women in a flirtatious way. That’s okay. You can pick up some experience pretty easily. Just think about how many possible interactions with women that you can have throughout the normal day. Even if you are not trying to pick up a woman, you still can get in some playful flirting and practice and the more that you do this, the more at ease you will start to feel.

2. You need to be able to embrace imperfection.

One of the more common things that I have seen amongst guys that feel a little uncomfortable around women, is that they have this expectation that they have to be perfect. They tend to think that if they mess up in any way at all, that somehow the woman is going to lose her interest. You need to realize that no one is perfect, not even the most experienced pick up artist, and that it is okay to make some mistakes here and there.

3. You need to know how to talk to women without getting those long and awkward pauses.

Those awkward moments when you are both kind of waiting for the other person to say something, they can throw any guy off of his game. When this happens, it is usually a clear indication that you need to pick up some conversation skills so that you know what to do when that happens. Trust me, as painful and uncomfortable as it might feel for you, she is probably feeling the same way. So, you need to get this part down and handled as soon as possible.


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